Why?
Your 23-month-old balances on one foot, asks "why?" about everything, and has very clear opinions on most things. Next month, your baby turns 2!
Development
- Balances on one foot for a brief moment — tries again and again
- Asks "Why?" — curiosity is insatiable, and questions come in a steady stream
- Strong preferences and opinions: Wants to decide clothes, food, order of events, and who does what
- Longer sentences: 3–4 words, and grammar is starting to take shape
- Draws with intention — can say what the drawing represents (even if it looks like scribbles to adults)
- Masters stairs up and down (still holding the railing)
- Role play becomes complex: Full scenarios play out with dolls, cars, and stuffed animals
Growth
- Boys: Average 12.0 kg / 87 cm (26.5 lb / 34.3 in)
- Girls: Average 11.5 kg / 85.5 cm (25.4 lb / 33.7 in)
Sleep
- 11–14 hours per day (nighttime sleep 10–12 hours + 1 nap)
- The midday nap is still important for most, even if the resistance is strong
- Children who don't sleep a nap can have a calm quiet time with books instead
- Dreams and nightmares can occur — comfort and security are what matters most
Feeding
- 3 meals + 2 snacks — family food
- Strong food preferences are common — your baby may refuse food they liked last week
- Don't make separate food for your baby. Offer family food, and let your baby decide what and how much to eat
- Involve your baby in cooking — it increases interest in food
- Whole milk to drink (max 500 ml / 17 oz dairy products per day)
- Vitamin D: Continue with 400 IU (10 mcg) daily
Good to Know
- "Why?" is wonderful: Answer patiently and simply. When you don't know, say "Let's find out together!"
- Strong opinions are healthy: Your baby is developing identity and independence. Pick your battles — let your baby decide where possible (clothes, toys), but be clear on what's important (safety, bedtime)
- Potty training: Many babies show signs of readiness now — tells you about a wet diaper, shows interest in the potty, can stay dry for periods. Don't push — let your baby set the pace
- The 2-year well-baby visit is coming soon: Your pediatrician will check language (at least 50 words, two-word phrases), motor skills, and social development
Activity Tip
Balance play! Create an "obstacle course" in the living room with cushions to walk on, a board to balance along (flat on the floor), and a chair to climb over. Your baby practices balance, coordination, and strength — and has an absolute blast.
Explore on Babysential
- Sleep Tracker — Track sleep and routines
- Milestones — Follow development toward 2 years
- Baby — More guides for your toddler's development
Tip: Your baby is almost 2! Look back at the photos from the first year — it's incredible how much has happened. And remember: you're doing a fantastic job.