Imagination in Full Bloom!
Your 21-month-old has mastered the stairs, has over 50 words in their vocabulary, and pretend play is really taking off. Welcome to a creative and exciting phase.
Development
- Walks up stairs with alternating feet (holding the railing)
- 50+ words in active vocabulary — and many babies know far more
- Pretend play takes off: Feeds the teddy bear, puts the doll to bed, makes "food" in the play kitchen, drives cars with sound effects
- Builds towers with 5–6 blocks
- Recognizes colors — can point to the right color when you ask
- Sings along to simple nursery rhymes, often with recognizable melodies
- Simple problem-solving: Figures out how things open, pull out, or fit together
Growth
- Boys: Average 11.6 kg / 85 cm (25.6 lb / 33.5 in)
- Girls: Average 11.0 kg / 83.5 cm (24.3 lb / 32.9 in)
Sleep
- 11–14 hours per day (nighttime sleep 10–12 hours + 1 nap)
- A rich imagination can lead to vivid dreams and sometimes nightmares
- If your baby wakes at night: comfort calmly, avoid starting activities
- Consistent bedtime routines provide security during a phase with lots of new learning
Feeding
- 3 meals + 2 snacks — family food
- May have strong food preferences, but don't give up — it can take 10–15 exposures before a child accepts a new food
- Often inspired by watching others eat — shared family meals are important
- Whole milk to drink (max 500 ml / 17 oz dairy products per day)
- Vitamin D: Continue with 400 IU (10 mcg) daily
- Good iron levels are important — offer iron-rich foods like meat, beans, lentils, and whole grains
Good to Know
- Pretend play is learning: Through role play, your baby practices social skills, empathy, and creativity
- Vocabulary varies enormously from child to child. Anywhere from 20 to 200 words can be normal. What matters most is that your baby understands and communicates
- Stairs need supervision — your baby can go up, but going down is harder and more dangerous
- The 2-year well-baby visit is approaching — watch for whether your baby uses at least 50 words and combines two-word phrases
Activity Tip
Pretend play with dolls and stuffed animals! Set up a little tea party, feed the bear, or put the doll to bed. Your baby practices caring, language, and social skills through this kind of play. Join in yourself — "Does the bear want more tea?"
Explore on Babysential
- Sleep Tracker — Track sleep and routines
- Milestones — Follow development
- Baby — More guides for your toddler's development
Tip: Give pretend play space. When your baby says "Bear is sleeping", whisper back "Shh, we need to be quiet!" You're entering your baby's world — and that strengthens the bond between you.